Etiquette

I appreciate that, carried to the extreme, practicing good manners or observing social etiquette can be elitist (deeply unpopular today) or certainly pompous.  However, I personally feel that treating others with respect that is: "do unto others as you would they would do unto you" and, to some extent, maintaining practices that pay tribute to the customs and traditions of your country are matters to be cherished.  I offer my own observations in the sure knowledge that they will be ignored by many, sneered at by others - but still appreciated by a few.

Breaking Bread
A late uncle of mine who was very well travelled and had spent time with people of many different cultures was of the view that sitting down to eat food together was the mark of a true communion between people.  This, clearly, was not a novel opinion but I had never heard it explained so well. 

All of this leads me to my point that when it comes to eating the bread rolls offered at the beginning of a meal I have always understood that, in this country at least, the approved manner is to break the rolls apart with your thumbs rather than try to cut them open with your knife.  Why this should be the case I cannot say, but logically if we were meant to cut the bread then surely we would be furnished with a sharper knife with which to do so?


Waistcoats
I have always liked the inclusion of a waistcoat with a man's suit and I'm glad to see it may be coming back into fashion.  In my younger days a brightly coloured waistcoat was also fun to wear with a dinner jacket to various balls etc.  As I get older, a waistcoat only serves to emphasize how the curve of my stomach has changed from concave to convex. 

I am not alone in this difficulty however and it was the Prince of Wales, later Edward VII, who found that matters had reached such a crisis that he had to leave the bottom button of his waistcoat undone.  Loyal subjects not wishing to cause embarassment followed suit - thus establishing a tradition that I'm pleased to see is still observed today.